Being Yourself..

Every person is different in views, thoughts, talents, behavior and so on. You are unique the way you talk, the way you smile,the way you walk,cry,laugh its all different you need never be scared of being either a size zero or achieving something exactly what the other one does.

Knowing yourself gives you the best of chances to enjoy some great moments with your own self. Rather than justifying your aloofness smile and know someday you would be remembered for your “Individualism”. If you are still not convinced try this for a week, literally think before you speak. Say what you truly feel and not what is expected of you, what you say out of sheer habit.

This does not mean that you put yourself under the pressure of coming up with brilliant and innovative statements. But rather speak you mind draft some courage to take a stand for the person you love the most “YOURSELF”. Begin to Love yourself slowly without any extra efforts you would be Original....!!!

Be the holding hand....

The most difficult thing in life is to console somebody. And for a person like me who doesn't exhibit emotions very openly, it becomes even more difficult. These are the moments when sincere and heartfelt words appear to be cheesy and superficial. Consoling words are sincere and comforting only if they are backed by a sincere action. If you can't be of any help or are not willing to take out.. sometime for the people who need help, then better don't give false hope. There are people who would pose to be your true well wishers and to satisfy their curiosity would gather from you every detail of what has happened. Nobody needs lecturing or banal cliches.
A warm hug, a sincere nod, a patient ear and a holding hand is all that you need to console somebody.....!!!

It's been a long time.....

Hey guys,

It's been a really long time since I have not been blogging..It's not that I don't want to...but my routine is keeping me busy these days...In fact it's work that has really worked as a therapy for me right from keeping myself busy to forgetting the past and focusing attention on my career!!

Life has started taking a "New Leap, New Hopes, New aspirations" that were really missing have started taking a shaping....I'm again feeling fresh...ready to begin new phase with fresh dreams....I'm charged and ready to take up new challenges that life is posing...A Little more HAppy and a little LEss Sad...!!!

Cryptic Thought!!

Sometimes all you have to do to create a masterpiece , is close your eyes and splash colors on an empty canvas.......

What a strange comfort it brings----This freedom of soul!!

We have a chance every single day of our lives...it's just that we are too busy in our schedule!!!

Conversation!!!

It's surprising how much of myself I discover during conversation with you...random conversation over cups of coffee...discussion about daily routine!! They bring about lots of change in me.

Just a random topic of silly banter sometimes leads to hours of introspection and pondering when I'm alone. Sometimes I wonder how it must be to be in your shoes...how it must be to live the way you live your life....but frankly I love listening to your perspective just as much as I love speaking about mine..

I like to listen to your opinion, your interpretation, your way of looking at life....sometimes I want to see the world through your eyes...may it be just for a while!! Just enough to realize why life has shaped our personalities so different....neither good or bad....Just different...!!!

It's not every time that our views differ though...and it's not everyday that we have differences in perspective...sometimes these small differences also make me realize what I need to change about myself,they help me to grow as a person....!!! so delicate and yet so powerful----- These "Conversations"

This or That???

Are having too many (lets say over 5) choices/options in life, good? I personally think we are being overfed on these choices.

Like this yesterday ,the stress of choice shoe shopping gave me a bad headache and I really really have to drink coffee to get it out of my head....so we went to "CCD".....that place was over friendly and extremely annoying this rushes to follow me around until we choose our choice of seating!!
And then more choices on menu...
few more seconds later....

That: Hello mam… how are you...what will you have today?
ME: A Cappuccino pls...
That: What kind mam...
ME: Err regular...
That: Oh we have caramel, vanilla, cocoa flovours...
ME : … jus the regular coffee pls...
That: Do you want marshmallows with it?
ME: Hmmmmmmmmmm…….sure
That: Separate or dipped in?
ME: Ehhhhhh...what?
That: (Proceeding to explain their marshmallow dipping choices...)
ME: No! It's ok, please cancel the marshmallows I just want a cappuccino...
That: Would you like sugar?
ME: Yes please
That: How many cubes?
ME : 3 please.
That: Brown or white?
ME : White..
That: Any dressings mam... Whipped creme, Cookies, Ice Cream...
ME: Phew... just the coffee pls...
That: Cash or card mam...
ME: #^$&$&&
That: Takeaway or have it in mam...
ME: $^#^
That: Oh.. we have sandwichs, muffins, cookies, tarts and other pastries mam... Really good...
ME: Do you wanna take the cash or not?...

By then the headache really became something else that even the coffee couldn't work on...!:(