Don't forget to remember...

There are some things in life you should never forget to remember…..whatever your age is, how much ever busy you are, even when you believe that you don’t care much……am going to list them down …..I know each and every one of you will agree to me…

The unbelievable happiness experienced while meeting your oldest friends…

The fragrance of new clothes and old books…

The sheer joy of spending a day at home with family...

The refreshing cup of tea amidst an intensely busy day at work…

The fun in getting drenched in the cold rain drops…

The soothing warm water of the shower while you bath…

The fun in dressing up and admiring yourself in mirror…

The amazement in driving to office on a holiday because there isn’t any traffic…

The delight in humming a song you love while you cook or dress up…

The fun in bursting the balloons after the party is over...

Don't worry about things that might happen or bound to happen ...realize today before it fades away...!!

Life in 4 photographs!!!

Read this recently in mail...had to share this with you guyz....very interesting!!

First Pic :

Break of Dawn - New lease of life, embarking upon a New Voyage...
A Child Flying Kite - Young Blood, Aspiring to Fly High with Enormous Zest and Zeal... The sky is the limit...
A Small Tree - Need to Nurture...
Two Birds Hovering Above - There are the people around you to take care of you, nurture, nourish and protect you.

Second Pic :

Daylight - You are almost half-way through the journey of Life
Couple - You have a better half with you to lean on and speak your heart out to.
Grown-up Tree - You have been nurtured to be able to stand tall and rigidly to face the storms which otherwise would have let you down.
Small Tree - You have brought a new life into the world
One bird hovering above - There are comparatively less people around you to take care of you, unlike the wonder years of your childhood.

Third Pic :

Fall of Dusk - Twilight is setting upon... Life has come a full circle.
An Old Man & Aging Tree - It is a race against time now... the beginning of the end of the journey...
Grown Tree - Your kids have grown up... it is time to set them free and support them with love and care rather than clashes.
One Bird - Self explanatory, I guess...
Grave - In the course of the journey, you have lost loved ones and you too start anticipating your ultimate fate and destiny...

Fourth Pic :

Nightfall - Journey has come to an end... Darkness is looming and it is time to bid aideu...
Starry Sky - There is still happiness around... thanks to the good work put in by you and your memories...
Grown-up Tree - Your children are walking in your shoes now; living their lives and drawing inspiration from your life..

Grave With Two Crosses - You are united with your soulmate... you now Rest In Peace...

Being Yourself..

Every person is different in views, thoughts, talents, behavior and so on. You are unique the way you talk, the way you smile,the way you walk,cry,laugh its all different you need never be scared of being either a size zero or achieving something exactly what the other one does.

Knowing yourself gives you the best of chances to enjoy some great moments with your own self. Rather than justifying your aloofness smile and know someday you would be remembered for your “Individualism”. If you are still not convinced try this for a week, literally think before you speak. Say what you truly feel and not what is expected of you, what you say out of sheer habit.

This does not mean that you put yourself under the pressure of coming up with brilliant and innovative statements. But rather speak you mind draft some courage to take a stand for the person you love the most “YOURSELF”. Begin to Love yourself slowly without any extra efforts you would be Original....!!!

Be the holding hand....

The most difficult thing in life is to console somebody. And for a person like me who doesn't exhibit emotions very openly, it becomes even more difficult. These are the moments when sincere and heartfelt words appear to be cheesy and superficial. Consoling words are sincere and comforting only if they are backed by a sincere action. If you can't be of any help or are not willing to take out.. sometime for the people who need help, then better don't give false hope. There are people who would pose to be your true well wishers and to satisfy their curiosity would gather from you every detail of what has happened. Nobody needs lecturing or banal cliches.
A warm hug, a sincere nod, a patient ear and a holding hand is all that you need to console somebody.....!!!

It's been a long time.....

Hey guys,

It's been a really long time since I have not been blogging..It's not that I don't want to...but my routine is keeping me busy these days...In fact it's work that has really worked as a therapy for me right from keeping myself busy to forgetting the past and focusing attention on my career!!

Life has started taking a "New Leap, New Hopes, New aspirations" that were really missing have started taking a shaping....I'm again feeling fresh...ready to begin new phase with fresh dreams....I'm charged and ready to take up new challenges that life is posing...A Little more HAppy and a little LEss Sad...!!!

Cryptic Thought!!

Sometimes all you have to do to create a masterpiece , is close your eyes and splash colors on an empty canvas.......

What a strange comfort it brings----This freedom of soul!!

We have a chance every single day of our lives...it's just that we are too busy in our schedule!!!

Conversation!!!

It's surprising how much of myself I discover during conversation with you...random conversation over cups of coffee...discussion about daily routine!! They bring about lots of change in me.

Just a random topic of silly banter sometimes leads to hours of introspection and pondering when I'm alone. Sometimes I wonder how it must be to be in your shoes...how it must be to live the way you live your life....but frankly I love listening to your perspective just as much as I love speaking about mine..

I like to listen to your opinion, your interpretation, your way of looking at life....sometimes I want to see the world through your eyes...may it be just for a while!! Just enough to realize why life has shaped our personalities so different....neither good or bad....Just different...!!!

It's not every time that our views differ though...and it's not everyday that we have differences in perspective...sometimes these small differences also make me realize what I need to change about myself,they help me to grow as a person....!!! so delicate and yet so powerful----- These "Conversations"

This or That???

Are having too many (lets say over 5) choices/options in life, good? I personally think we are being overfed on these choices.

Like this yesterday ,the stress of choice shoe shopping gave me a bad headache and I really really have to drink coffee to get it out of my head....so we went to "CCD".....that place was over friendly and extremely annoying this rushes to follow me around until we choose our choice of seating!!
And then more choices on menu...
few more seconds later....

That: Hello mam… how are you...what will you have today?
ME: A Cappuccino pls...
That: What kind mam...
ME: Err regular...
That: Oh we have caramel, vanilla, cocoa flovours...
ME : … jus the regular coffee pls...
That: Do you want marshmallows with it?
ME: Hmmmmmmmmmm…….sure
That: Separate or dipped in?
ME: Ehhhhhh...what?
That: (Proceeding to explain their marshmallow dipping choices...)
ME: No! It's ok, please cancel the marshmallows I just want a cappuccino...
That: Would you like sugar?
ME: Yes please
That: How many cubes?
ME : 3 please.
That: Brown or white?
ME : White..
That: Any dressings mam... Whipped creme, Cookies, Ice Cream...
ME: Phew... just the coffee pls...
That: Cash or card mam...
ME: #^$&$&&
That: Takeaway or have it in mam...
ME: $^#^
That: Oh.. we have sandwichs, muffins, cookies, tarts and other pastries mam... Really good...
ME: Do you wanna take the cash or not?...

By then the headache really became something else that even the coffee couldn't work on...!:(

Memories!!

LIFE has changed dramatically over years, from childhood to school, and from school to college!! We opened our eyes facing a beautiful world in our mom and dad's eyes...We grew up with all fun and peace that one can had...and in no time we realized that plenty of expectation has been already grown...!!!

One of the important stage of my life is "College Days". Generally we stepped up in college having plenty of things in mind, feeling ourselves uncomfortable at the beginning...and that's the time where we just met few lovely folks... Many glimpses of college life...those small fighting, glancing on handsome guys and plenty of discussion with friends about everything. Bunking classes, going for movie, too long hours of gossiping...smiling for every moment we lived, sometimes crying.... A phase where we learned new things, an era where we enjoyed... I'm going to miss my life in RUIA.... :(

That time has been remembered deep down in our memories...!!!

On my post it's just.......

Dear suitcase

I wish you would unpack yourself and wash all dirty cloths that you're storing, because frankly I don't really like it....

Dear tissues and vicks

You are life saver who is saving my nose from being much more raw then it could be!!

Dear Maggie

I love you. I think you are my favorite thing to eat early in the morning in this whole entire universe.

Dear Mosquito

You make me laugh when we play fight at night before bed. You act so tough fighting it out all loud and tough.

Dear Study books

You must be getting complex by now,but you you guessed it.....you still bite it hard!!

Dear Brain

Will you Please get into work mode so that I can actually get stuff done...!!!

Good apple

Thank you good apple for a thoughtful gyan...!!!

Message

Got this text message from one of my friend.thought I'd share it with you :)

As we grow up,we learn the one person that wasn't suppose to let us down, probably will.

You'll have your heart broken and you'll break others heart

You'll fight with your best friend or may be even fall in love with them and You'll cry because time is flying by.... So take a lot pictures,laugh like there's no tomorrow,forgive freely and love like you've never been hurt.

Life comes with no guarantee ,no time outs, no second chances.

Tell someone what they mean to you, speak out, dance in pouring rain, hold someone's hand

comfort a friend,fall asleep reading a book, be a flirt and smile until your face hurts....

Don't be afraid to take chances or fall in Love, live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back :)

Truly touched me!!!!

Life is like a Bubble

Life is full of bubbles. Millions of bubbles. BIG bubbles. SMALL bubbles. These bubbles float around us. We can't see them. They are microscopic. Each bubble contains a dream, and idea, a wish, a desire. Once in a while a bubble floats into the conscious state of the mind. The bubble grows. Bigger and bigger. Day after day. When it reaches its optimum level, its all we can think about. Day and night. All you want in life is that li'l dream inside the bubble to come true. And once that wish takes over your mind-body-soul, the bubble BURSTS. Just like that. Just as inconspicuously as it had surfaced in the first place. For a second you're paralyzed, not realizing what has happened. You don't know what to do, where to go. Your heart breaks. Your mind freezes. Your soul cries.
Time passes. And then slowly another bubble floats into the conscious state of the mind. This one too grows bigger and bigger, day after day........until.......
PHUT!!!
Life becomes a full circle

The eyes of beholder

In high school we had a classmate with a mousy looking face, dark complexion and she wore glasses too. Definitely not a girl anyone looked at twice. Her younger sister on the other hand was quite good looking. So it was with shock I heard that guys found her hot! That one incident taught me a valuable lesson. That what we girls thought was beauty was not necessarily endorsed by guys. Though stars like an Aishwarya is acknowledged to be a beauty by both guys and girls, rarely do guys and gals agree on the looks of another girl. I have found absolutely "slimy" looking girls looked upon as good looking by guys.

Though me and my friends still agree on the look or lack of it on other girls, we have always acknowledged that what we find plain or ugly is our viewpoint only. Guys have a different rule book for judging looks. The revelation was humbling.


I don’t know if this happens with guys too. I wonder if they find guys that we gals find cute or smart as horrible looking or unmanly...hmmm


Having acknowledged to what I have in this post... I have to admit this revelation do prevent us girls from looking at each other in absolute shock when we are introduced to a smart/good looking guy’s wife, girlfriend or fiancé for the first time! :)) Because beauty is in the eyes of beholder!!! and now i totally agreed!!

Overheard at Matunga station!!!

Guy : Was your Dad a thief??
Girl (angry) : Excuse me??? What are you talking about?
Guy (with a smirk) : I mean, he has stolen all the stars and put them in your eyes!!

Me : Oh boy.....gimme a break.......!!

Outcome :
Girl (kinda blushing) : Well he was never caught!!

And so it began......the courting rituals!!!

Me : Damm it.....I didn't know such statements worked!! lol....bt that was really very funny!!!

Some stupid questions people ask!!!

1. At the movies: When you meet acquaintances/friends...


Stupid Question:- Hey, what are you doing here?

Answer:- Dont u know, I sell tickets in black over here..




2. In the bus: A heavy lady wearing pointed high-heeled shoes steps on

your feet...

Stupid Question:- Sorry, did that hurt?


Answer:-No, not at all, I'm on local anesthesia.....why don't you try
again.




3. At a funeral: One of the teary-eyed people ask...

Stupid Question:- Why, why him, of all people.


Answer:- Why? Would it rather have been you?




4. At a restaurant: When you ask the waiter...

Stupid Question:- Is the "Butter Paneer Masala" dish good??

Answer:- No, its terrible and made of adulterated cement. We
occassionaly also spit in it.




5. At a family get-together: When some distant aunt meets you after
years

Stupid Question:- Munna,Chickoo, you've become so big !!


Answer:- Well you haven't particularly shrunk yourself.




6. When a friend announces her wedding, and you ask...

Stupid Question:- Is the guy you're marrying good?

Answer:- No,he's a miserable wife-beating ,insensitive lout...it's
just the money.




7. When you get woken up at midnight by a phone call...

Stupid Question:- Sorry. were you sleeping?

Answer:- No. I was doing research on whether the Zulu tribes in Africa
marry or not. You thought I was sleeping.... you moron !!




8. When you see a friend/colleague with evidently shorter hair...

Stupid Question:- Hey have you had a haircut?


Answer:- No, its autumn and I'm shedding......




9. At the dentist when he's sticking pointed objects in your mouth...

Stupid Question:- Tell me if it hurts?


Answer:- No it wont. It will just bleed.




10. You are smoking a cigarette and a cute woman in your office asks...

Stupid Question:- Oh, so you smoke ?

Answer:- Gosh, it's a miracle ............it was a piece of chalk and
now it's in flames.

So Close, Yet So Far!!!

14th Feb "Valentines Day".....It's been 3 years for our relationship, gosh time sure does fly. Every moment with you has been a blessing. In this short time that we've been together,we have grown so much and I can't wait to see that the future holds for us!!!Being far away from you is very difficult, not sharing each day with you and not being to hold you whenever i hurt, want you so much.....but I know at the end of this I'll find you again.

You stood by my side, when things were good or were bad...you listened and saying "Everything Gonna Be Alright"!!! The truth is I just can't imagine my life without you. You have been there for me through everything. The day we met was fate, my dream come true....

I'm proud of the person you are. I love the way you are with me and others..Be with me forever and ever...I love you so much, with all my heart and soul..always and forever......

Can You Answer This??

1. Why is it that the phone always only rings once your totally immersed in your bathtub?

2. Why does the other queue always move faster?

3. Why is it that every time you hope to catch a good flick on TV on a particularly free day that nothing good is on?

4. Why does your entire friend circle remember to call you only when you’re totally pre-occupied with something extremely important?

5. Why is it that when you expect someone, anyone at all to call or message you that no one ever does so?

6. How do you know where the line is until you cross it?

7. Exactly which side of the coin is the flip-side?

8. Why is it that every time you want to prove to someone that something won’t work, it instantly starts working?

9. Why is it that every time you expect someone to be mind-blowingly funny, he always lets you down?

10. Why does it always itch the most in a place that is farthest to reach?

Ouote of the day!!

Quoting here a few lines for inspiration.

Rest not! Life is sweeping by;

Go and dare before you die.

Something mighty and sublime

Leave Behind to conquer time.

-Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe

Sometimes I feel life is so short and there is so much to do, so much that I want to do and know... and there is only twenty four hours in a day !!

Colour of Mind

Black… The absence of light...... Black… The dawn of the night. Black… The beginning of life...... Black… The shade of magnificence. Black… The color of fear. Black… The language of the blind.
It’s amazing, how this one color has so many faces to it. On one hand if we say that death is the end of light and the beginning of black, on the other we have black, the darkness from which we are all born. If the eyes see hues of colors, then what is the color of the mind??
Most ideas are born out of a shut mind. A mind that is left to itself no matter what the eyes see.… your mind, your true self has its own thoughts. The mind, so vulnerable can very easily detach itself from everything around and get into its own shell of thought… black???
Take a simple example of a little child in a classroom. The child can listen to the teacher and can also listen to his/her own self. While originally he/she is instructed to listen to the teacher, the child can easily get carried away by the smallest sound outside the classroom. A bird chirps, and off goes the mind of the child.
What the world may call distraction is the actual soul that lies in all of us. A soul and a mind that responds to nature’s smallest interaction with us. Thought triggers distraction and the mind triggers thought. Ah! What do we have here now? Is the mind an entity, a soul in itself?

Ok. Just for a moment shut your eyes… It’s easy… Black.
Now with you eyes shut, shut your mind. Easy? Try harder, don’t think. No, not yet. You are still thinking about trying not to think. Black, again… But is it fully black? No?
The color of your mind absorbs the most pictorial thoughts, ideas and colors... So what’s the color of your mind now??

Looking Forward.....

The sky was beautiful to day. We all get a little distracted in our busy lives and sometimes its hard to remember to slow down and enjoy the little things as the days goes buzzing by. You know its always right there up above ever present like so many things in our life that we seem to forget or glaze over in our day to day race. I've been thinking about this a lot lately with things going on in my life and have been making a point to clear my head, slow down and enjoy all life has to offer. So I'm starting out the new year in the right frame of mind..... With new Ideas swirling through my head. I'm excited about what's next! so let's enjoy the life!!! There are few things I want to do.....

• Horse Riding
• Scuba Diving
• Being with my friends
• Seeing sunset on the beach with .......
• Twirling in the rain.
• Want to laugh so hard so that my stomach and back hurts
• Climbing on the roof to watch the stars.